Lent 2012 Disability Services (week 5, March 25) (INSIDE the Forum)

Catholic Social Services of Washtenaw County (CSSW):  Disability Support

Coping with the daily challenges of a physical, emotional, or mental disability is difficult enough; coping with your dignity intact is even harder.  CSSW helps people do both.

CSSW programs empower thousands of people with disabilities to maximize their independence by providing housing, counseling, hands-on assistance, respite support, and more.  

For adults with developmental disabilities, Intentional Communities of Washtenaw (ICW) offers independent housing options and support assistance.  Housing Support Services provides comprehensive services in Ann Arbor’s Avalon Housing.  Behavior Health Counseling Services helps people at all stages of life struggling with psychiatric, substance abuse, and emotional issues.  

Interfaith Volunteer Caregivers, The Oaks ~Adult Day Services, and Neighborhood Senior Services provide senior caregiver support, home safety/home maintenance, and a program for adults with memory and cognitive deficits.  

A young woman who is developmentally disabled has her own home in a supportive community.  A formerly homeless Vietnam veteran with mental illness receives medical and housing assistance to remain vital and independent.  A wife can delay nursing home placement for her husband because of respite help. Coping – with dignity. 

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This week, we share the story of Ruth and Syd, who are involved with The Oaks:

When you walk into The Oaks ~ Adult Day Services, you see people socializing, practicing yoga and Tai Chi, cooking, listening to music, playing board games; laughing, and living.  The Oaks provides stimulating activities 5 days a week to improve social interaction and mental acuity, while also providing needed support for loved ones seeking a break from the demands of daily caregiving.

Syd led the kind of life most would envy.  He and his wife, Ruth, are happily married with two children and five grandchildren.  After receiving his doctorate at Brandeis University, he built a rewarding 40-year career as a U of M professor.  He traveled extensively, enjoyed an active social life, and kept himself physically fit.

Nine years ago, Syd was diagnosed with age-related dementia.

After the initial shock, Ruth realized that her husband’s well-being was in her hands. “As Syd became more physically debilitated, I was becoming really tired—exhausted would be a better word. That’s when I knew I need to have outside help.”

Ruth tried various options before choosing The Oaks, which operates under 5 core values: comfort, care, compassion, dignity, and respect.   The program has created structure and stimulation to Syd’s day.  Equally important, it gives Ruth the respite to help her stay mentally and physically able to provide for her partner.

This article was edited and organized by Kelly Gauthier, St. Francis Parish Peace & Justice Committee member